What if the behavior we’re quickest to punish is actually a wound asking to be understood? On this profound episode of M.E.S.H., Dr. Pamela Brewer welcomes Dr. Adam McCormick, a professor of social work at St. Edward’s University, author, and facilitator of trauma and masculinity groups for boys and young men in the foster care and criminal legal systems. With deep compassion and clarity, Dr. McCormick reframes trauma not as the terrible things that happen to a young person, but as the wound left behind—and the stories a child constructs to make sense of it. He explains why boys so often push away the very connection they need to heal, how the most rigid institutions hold the most wounded young people, and why accountability and compassion can absolutely coexist. Through a striking story of a young man placed in 26 different foster homes, Dr. McCormick reveals both the depth of the harm and the profound hope at the center of his work: while we can’t rewrite what happened, the meaning a young person makes of it is negotiable—and connection is what heals. This is a moving, caregivers, helpers, and anyone who loves someone carrying old wounds.
