Dr. Pamela Brewer Welcomes You to
M.E.S.H.
The safe place for you to learn about
ALL MATTERS AFFECTING YOUR M (MENTAL),
E (EMOTIONAL), AND S (SOCIAL) H (HEALTH)
The safe place for you to learn about ALL MATTERS AFFECTING YOUR (M) MENTAL, (E) EMOTIONAL, AND (S) SOCIAL (H) HEALTH.
Dr. Pamela Brewer Welcomes You to
M.E.S.H.
The safe place for you to learn about. ALL MATTERS AFFECTING YOUR (M) MENTAL, (E) EMOTIONAL, AND (S) SOCIAL (H) HEALTH.
What if the most toxic relationship in your life is the one you have with yourself?
The truth? We don’t always recognize when we’re the ones hurting ourselves. We can criticize ourselves, ignore our own needs, dismiss our feelings, and repeat patterns that leave us feeling stuck—often without realizing the impact on how we feel, the choices we make, and the relationships we have with others.
Are You in a Toxic Relationship With You? is a free guide designed to help you recognize the patterns that may be keeping you stuck and start changing the way you relate to yourself.
Inside, you’ll discover how to:
- Recognize the red flags in your relationship with yourself
- Identify patterns of self-criticism, self-doubt, and self-sabotage that may be affecting your choices and well-being
- Understand what you actually need instead of constantly overriding yourself
- Shift the way you talk to and treat yourself with greater compassion
- Take practical steps toward a healthier relationship with you
Dr. Pamela Brewer
What is M.E.S.H?
In a world where fact and fiction are often blurred, Dr. Brewer will spend 20 minutes each week hosting live and recorded conversations to help you gain insights and practical takeaways about what truly matters: you, your life, your decisions, and your relationship with yourself and others. In short: your world.
Listen to perspectives designed to support you, respect you, and honor what matters most to you.
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M.E.S.H. Episode #53
Conformity Is the Jailer of Freedom: A Conversation on Creativity
What if creativity isn’t a rare gift reserved for artists, but a birthright every one of us carries—and can reclaim? On this thought-provoking episode of M.E.S.H., Dr. Pamela Brewer welcomes Dr. Andre Walton, an author, TEDx speaker, and researcher who has spent two decades studying creativity and using it to help people move through burnout, stress, and anxiety. 💡 With warmth and clarity, Dr. Walton makes the case that we were all creative as children, and that socialization, fear of mistakes, and the pressure to conform can dim that spark over time. He explores why conformity is “the jailer of freedom,” how perfectionism quietly shuts creativity down, and why genuine creative thinking requires the courage to be vulnerable. Along the way, he offers practical wisdom for introducing new ideas at work, finding supportive “champions,” and creating the conditions for creativity to flourish. This is an empowering conversation about individuality, growth, and the reminder that your creative bone is there—you just have to look for it.
M.E.S.H. Episode #52
A Diagnosis Is Not a Life Sentence: One Woman's Testimony
What happens after a diagnosis that many people believe defines an entire life? In this powerful and hopeful episode of M.E.S.H., Dr. Pamela Brewer welcomes author Swiyyah Nadira Woodard, who was diagnosed with paranoid schizophrenia and is here to tell a very different story than the one stigma expects. 💛 With remarkable candor and warmth, Swiyyah shares the confusion of her early diagnosis, why she initially resisted medication, and the moment a compassionate pharmacist reframed everything with a single conversation. She talks about writing her book, “Don’t Call Me Crazy, I’m Just in Love,” building a speaking career, marrying a supportive partner, and living a full and meaningful life. Along the way, she offers practical wisdom: take ownership of your care, make recovery a group effort, learn everything about your diagnosis, involve your family, and don’t keep your story a secret. This is a conversation about possibility, and the healing power of telling your testimony—a reminder that a diagnosis can be a beginning, not an ending.
M.E.S.H. Episode #51
A Survivor's Testimony: The Hurricane That Stayed
Some conversations stay with you long after they end. In this deeply moving episode of M.E.S.H., Dr. Pamela Brewer welcomes an old and dear friend, Selma Rodriguez, who lived through Hurricane Maria in Puerto Rico in 2017. With extraordinary honesty, Selma recounts the night the storm sounded like a train tearing through her yard, the four long months without electricity, the nerve-wracking pre-dawn waits for gas, and the health consequences she carries to this day. But this is more than a story of hardship—it’s a testament to resilience, faith, family, and the profound importance of showing up for one another. Selma shares what disaster survivors truly need, why the aftermath can be as devastating as the storm itself, and a tender reminder not to forget the children caught in the middle. This is a conversation about survival, courage, and the humanity that, as Selma says, keeps us whole.
M.E.S.H. Episode #50
Music as Medicine: Lady Myrrh on the Self-Care We Overlook
What if one of the most powerful forms of self-care has been playing in the background of your life all along? On this joyful, soul-filling episode of M.E.S.H., Dr. Pamela Brewer welcomes Lady Myrrh, a Washington, DC and Maryland-based musical artist, radio host, and lifelong music historian whose blend of jazz, R&B, and neo soul has made her a beloved fixture in the region. 🎶 Lady Myrrh shares how music became her companion as an only child, how the blues became her therapy, and how a single song can leave you lighter than you started. From the storytelling roots of Delta blues to sneaking gospel as a minister’s daughter, she traces a lifetime set to music—and offers warm, practical encouragement for anyone who wants to begin using music more intentionally. Her invitation is simple and generous: start with a song you love, crack the door, and let music carry you through. This is a conversation that will leave you reaching for your favorite playlist with new appreciation.
M.E.S.H. Episode #49
Children Grieve Differently - Not
Less
How do children really grieve—and why do we so often miss it? On this deeply moving episode of M.E.S.H., Dr. Pamela Brewer welcomes Kelly Edmondson, a nurse executive, certified grief counselor, and founder of Timely Presence, an organization she created after the sudden loss of her 28-year-old son. 💛 With extraordinary openness, Kelly shares her own story and then turns toward the children in our lives, helping us understand that just because kids grieve differently doesn’t mean they grieve less. From the danger of well-meaning phrases like “grandpa went to sleep,” to the compounded grief of a child who lost a parent they never knew, to the very real heartbreak of a lost toy or a missed team, Kelly offers compassionate, practical wisdom. Her “three R’s”—regulate, respond, remain—give parents and caregivers a gentle framework for showing up. This is a tender, hopeful conversation about helping children feel seen, heard, and safe, and about how loss can reshape us without defining us.
M.E.S.H. Episode #48
How to Process Loss When You Don't Want to Talk
Grief touches all of us—so why are we so rarely given permission to feel it fully? On this moving episode of M.E.S.H., Dr. Pamela Brewer welcomes Dr. Shalanda, a licensed psychotherapist whose expertise spans both the loss of loved ones and the quieter griefs that accompany major life changes. 💛 Together they unpack why grief is at once universal and deeply individual, how rigid “recovery boxes” at work can do more harm than good, and what happens when one partner needs to talk while the other stays silent. Dr. Shalanda generously shares her own story of loss and the single conversation that helped both her and her husband begin to heal. Whether you’re grieving a person, a pet, a career, or a chapter of your life that’s quietly closed, this conversation offers compassion, perspective, and gentle, practical ways to move toward healing on your own terms.