Grief touches all of us—so why are we so rarely given permission to feel it fully? On this moving episode of M.E.S.H., Dr. Pamela Brewer welcomes Dr. Shalanda, a licensed psychotherapist whose expertise spans both the loss of loved ones and the quieter griefs that accompany major life changes.
Together they unpack why grief is at once universal and deeply individual, how rigid “recovery boxes” at work can do more harm than good, and what happens when one partner needs to talk while the other stays silent. Dr. Shalanda generously shares her own story of loss and the single conversation that helped both her and her husband begin to heal. Whether you’re grieving a person, a pet, a career, or a chapter of your life that’s quietly closed, this conversation offers compassion, perspective, and gentle, practical ways to move toward healing on your own terms.